Disturbing Facts About Wills

19 March 2020

Your marriage revokes your Will but separation does not.  If you separate (more of which I comment on hereafter) one of the first things you should do is to see a lawyer to change your Will. In the meantime, don’t be the first down the stairs!


Have you heard the saying (please excuse the vulgarity) “your arse is mine” well after you’re dead, from at least a trustee’s perspective that is perfectly true. In particular your trustees and executors (and not you by your Will nor your family) decide what happens to your body. The lesson here is to make sure that your  trustees and executors know, and more importantly can be trusted, to follow your wishes concerning what is to happen to your remains. The usual options are cremation or burial, although I did have one old chap tell me to just shove a leg of mutton up his [bottom] and let the dogs drag [him] off into the bushes.


The Property Relationships Act overrides your Will, so if you don’t leave at least one half of your relationship property to your relationship partner(s) (the “s” here is intentional as at law there is no maximum number of relationship partners that the law can recognise you as having at any one time, all of whom qualify to be able to claim against your estate under this Act), so if instead you want to, for instance, leave more than half of your relationship assets to your children by an earlier marriage, then be aware your surviving relationship partner will have an automatic right of challenge. Note if you are mad enough to have more than one relationship partner on the go at a time, then the Court will prioritise these in order of importance to you and then give half of your relationship property to number one, half of a half to number two, half of a quarter to number three, half of an eighth to number four and so on!


Even if surviving relationship partners don’t want to challenge your Will, then sometimes Government departments will try and force them to challenge this in an effort to ensure that they get something more than they would otherwise have got under your Will and are thus put into a position to pay their own rest home subsidies.


Sometimes elderly parents become the pawns of their children (possibly of an earlier relationship) and understandings are forgotten as money hungry (step)children are suddenly closer than dermatitis to their surviving parent and become “actively engaged” in the management thereof.

What happens when you die without a Will?

It will take a lot longer and be more expensive to sort out your estate than it is if you take the time to sort it out now. Further your family could be left without immediate access to money and other assets that are tied up in the administration process. Further even once those are finally made available, your estate will face a larger bill than if you had simply taken the time to sort your affairs whilst living.

The law sets down who gets what based on legal relationship as opposed to your wishes. In fact how close you were to the relevant people, when you last saw them or who else may be deserving is irrelevant. Without a Will who gets what is decided for you based on some antiquated law as opposed to practicalities, true relationship and/or your probable wishes.

Remember

  • Good intentions were exactly that – intentions.
  • Understandings can be ignored or overridden, especially when you can’t predict who will in fact in the future be calling the shots.
  • It is a bit late to start planning and organising your affairs when you are standing in front of the Pearly Gates.
  • Your family will thank you for a wee bit of planning and expense now, rather than leaving them with an unpleasant, stressful mess later on. 

Get a Will drafted today

An effective will needs to be drafted by an experienced lawyer, and will save you unnecessary expense when you pass. Please note this article does not constitute legal advice and may be outdated. 
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