Family Law


Compassionate Christchurch Family Lawyers Helping You Move Forward

At Weston Ward & Lascelles, we understand that family law issues aren’t just legal matters — they’re deeply personal. Whether you’re navigating separation, dividing assets, or protecting your children’s wellbeing, our family lawyers in Christchurch provide clear, compassionate guidance every step of the way. With over 140 years of experience helping Cantabrians through life’s big transitions, we balance empathy with practical legal knowledge. Our goal is simple — to help you make confident, informed decisions that protect what matters most.


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Family Law Services


  • Relationship Property & Separation
  • Divorce & Dissolution
  • Care of Children (Custody)
  • Prenuptial Agreements
  • PPPR & Guardianship
  • Family Violence / Protection Orders

Relationship Property & Separation in Christchurch

Separating from a partner is never easy, but the right advice can make all the difference. Our experienced relationship property lawyers help you:


  • Divide assets fairly under the Property (Relationships) Act 1976.
  • Understand your rights for de facto, married, or civil union relationships.
  • Protect inherited or pre-relationship assets (including KiwiSaver).
  • Draft contracting-out (prenup) or separation agreements.


We take a practical, transparent approach — protecting your financial interests while reducing stress and conflict.

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Divorce & Dissolution of Marriage

 If you’ve been separated for at least two years, you can apply for a legal dissolution of marriage in New Zealand. Our Christchurch divorce lawyers can:


  • Prepare and file the dissolution application (sole or joint applications).
  • Advise on property, financial, and parenting implications.
  • Represent you through any Family Court proceedings if required.



We aim to make the process as straightforward as possible — allowing you to move forward with confidence and clarity.

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Care of Children & Custody

When children are involved, clear parenting arrangements are essential for everyone’s wellbeing. Our family lawyers can help with:



  • Parenting orders and contact agreements.
  • Guardianship disputes and relocation applications (moving cities or overseas).
  • Mediation and Family Court representation.
  • Day-to-day care and shared custody arrangements.


We prioritise the children’s best interests while helping parents reach workable, sustainable agreements.

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PPPR & Welfare Guardianship

When loved ones can no longer manage their own affairs, we can help you apply for or renew Enduring Powers of Attorney (EPOA) or formal court-appointed guardianships under the PPPR Act. Our lawyers advise families on:


  • Preparing or activating EPOAs.
  • Applying for welfare guardianship and property management orders.
  • Managing disputes or family concerns around care and capacity.


We provide clear, compassionate advice to protect vulnerable family members with dignity and respect.

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Prenuptial & Contracting-out Agreements

Planning ahead doesn’t mean you expect a relationship to fail — it means you’re being fair and proactive. Our lawyers draft and certify legally binding contracting-out agreements (often called prenups) that:


  • Protect assets and property acquired before your relationship.
  • Clarify how property will be divided if you separate.
  • Reduce the risk of future disputes or costly litigation.



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Family Violence & Protection Orders

Everyone deserves to feel safe. If you or your children are at risk, our lawyers can help you apply for urgent Protection Orders or occupation orders to ensure immediate safety. We also assist respondents who have been served with orders and need guidance through the legal process.

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“Best Family Court Lawyers in Christchurch hands down!!!”

(Family Client)


Why choose Weston Ward & Lascelles?

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Over 140 years serving families across Christchurch and Canterbury

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Practical, compassionate advice focused on real-world solutions

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Experienced in relationship property, family violence, and guardianship matters.

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Trusted by generations of Cantabrians for clear communication and genuine care


Our Process – What to Expect When you Work With us

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Initial Consultation

We’ll listen to your situation, outline your legal options, and map out next steps.

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Document Preparation

Our team prepares or reviews all agreements and court documents.

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Negotiation & Resolution

Wherever possible, we help parties reach amicable agreements outside court.

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Family court Representation

If needed, we’ll represent you in the Family Court with professionalism and discretion.

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Ongoing Support

We remain available for advice on related matters like trusts, wills, or estate planning.

Family Law FAQs

  • How long do I need to be separated before filing for divorce?

    In New Zealand, you must be separated for at least two years before you can apply for a Dissolution of Marriage (divorce). You can apply as a couple (joint application) or individually.

  • How is child custody decided in New Zealand?

    The Family Court focuses entirely on the welfare and best interests of the child. Parents are encouraged to reach an agreement themselves (often via mediation or "Family Dispute Resolution"). If that fails, a judge will decide based on the child's safety and wellbeing.

  • Do I need a lawyer for a separation agreement?

    Yes. Each party must receive independent legal advice for the agreement to be valid.

  • Can grandparents apply for contact with grandchildren?

    Yes. Under the Care of Children Act, grandparents can apply for parenting orders or contact if they are being denied access to their grandchildren. However, the court's primary focus will always be the child's wellbeing, not the grandparents' "rights."

Have another question? Contact our Christchurch family lawyers for tailored advice.

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With decades of combined experience, our team has guided hundreds of Canterbury families through life’s most challenging transitions.

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Take the first step towards peace of mind in Christchurch, contact our experienced family lawyers today for trusted, compassionate guidance.

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